Who’s Reading Your Blog?

By: Marilyn L. Davis


Right and Wrong Readers Will Find Your Site


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“If the wrong readers come across the words, they will remain just words. But for the right readers, your vision blooms off the page and is absorbed into their minds like smoke, where it will re-form, whole and alive, fully adapted to its new environment.” ― Mary Gaitskill 


Where are Your Right Readers? 


If you’ve isolated your niche, then you can find them through pages or topics on Facebook, by subject on Twitter, and groups on Linkedin.

Venturing into discussions on any of those sites familiarizes you with what people are looking for to improve their lives, make changes, or engage in conversations with other like-minded individuals. 

It’s these connections that our words create that give us readers

If you have managed to get a following, they want your words, phrases, and quirks. Yes, quirks. Those eccentricities, peculiarities, and traits make you write about your topics with fresh appeal. Sometimes, it’s the way you phrase a sentence that engages your readers. It’s your choice of words that makes the content yours.


Who Did You Write for Today? 


Most writers that I know want to write content that pleases them while still considering that if it’s not written for a particular reader, they might as well journal. Each day, the web gets crowded with more blogs. For this reason alone, it’s getting increasingly difficult to attract readers and remain true to your message, style, and tone.

As the Editor-in-chief at Two Drops of Ink and From Addict 2 Advocate, I see many submissions. Some of these had a compelling message that worked for either of the sites. Then there are submissions about home decorating, real estate, or party planning. These topics would not work at either site. It’s a shame because some of the writing was excellent, just the wrong topics. 

A writer needs to know who they are writing for, and if they're submitting guest blogs, which sites would be the best forum for their topics. Click To Tweet


How to Get Noticed by Readers


If you want to get noticed by readers, besides submitting relevant topics as a guest post, you need to understand the website’s aim. At Two Drops of Ink, we want to educate, entertain, and enchant our readers. How do we do this – by accepting quality how-tos with an emphasis on problem-solving for the writer and blogger, prose, and poetry. 

We have a target reader in mind each time we publish. Without that imagined reader, we’re just writing or publishing without a clear destination. 


Know What Your Readers Need


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If it is a how-to article, be sure it makes sense. Make sure you have tried the methods you’re discussing. In my niches, I’m writing to the addicted population or other writers. But there is a common thread. Both of these populations want to improve something. 

I think that I can offer the reader ways to improve their lives or their writing. Does that read egotistical?

I would hope not, as a good portion of my motive is still about educating in the sense that “Hey, here’s what I did, and things got better. Try it, and let me know how it works for you.”

I may write about relapse prevention or how to construct Swan Lake Sentences, but both posts are about improving recovery or writing. 


Be Your Authentic Self


“A writer’s voice emanates from their interest and compulsions that absorb them completely. Only by fully committing himself or herself to a pet subject or issue can the writer develop a thematic tone that speaks to other people with authority and serenity. The quality of their literary voice is the crucial part of the writer’s legitimacy, and their authenticity cannot come from mimicking other writers’ style but must evolve naturally from their inner sanctity and must flow effusively from an inner necessity.”― Kilroy J. Oldster, Dead Toad Scrolls

Prose is subjective. We either like the story, message or can relate to a character. However, if you’re advising on any topic, understand that a reader knows if it sounds authentic. They want to see that you did something and that you’re sharing the results and outcomes, but in your words, tone, and style

Your target readers want to know that it's not just some arbitrary how-to that you believe will work, in theory. Shoot, they can Google that info. Click To Tweet


Narrow Your Audience to One Reader


I understand my readers; however, when I’m writing, I try to think of one person; it makes my writing more conversational. I’m sure some envision themselves writing as if they’re giving a Ted Talk to a crowded room.

That fills me with stress and anxiety – what would I wear, would the microphone work, would there be any laughter? 

If you’ve ever done any public speaking, an audience of 500 can seem intimidating. Many faces, ideas, needs, and opinions, and, unfortunately,  imagining them in their birthday suits can backfire.

I digress, and when that happens, we can get into obscure or unrelated facts. When we write for that big audience, instead of writing for one, we get off track and occasionally get pretentious.

Granted, there are pretentious readers, too. Some want to comment and critique and put me in my place. I got criticized for giving what one reader considered a weak link. His links addressed the topic, but the language was arcane and better suited to a white paper or journal submission.

That link would not have been beneficial to my readers. 

However, I took the time to read all of his links and decided that it was helpful for his readers.


Reader Comments Add to the Intent

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Readers engage in the conversation when they add additional information to your post. A reader from Scotland commented on my post on a Facebook page for writers. She referenced Pantser and Planners, the NaNoWriMo equivalents of my Swoopers and Bashers. I thanked her for adding value to the thread by listing other terms and phrases to describe the writing process. She educated me and added additional information to readers as well. 

There will be different uses for our common denominator – the words we choose versus what others call a particular thing. In this case, she added a link, and I didn’t feel slighted in the least.

There are generational differences to consider in our readers. NaNo is newer than my inspiration for the post. Judging by her avatar, she’s younger than me by decades, so the examples we provided were appropriate to our respective ages.


Find Your Tribe


Good content isn't generic or impersonal. It must sound like you, or it's not you; it's a rehash of someone else, and it won't gain you followers. Click To Tweet

Age, eras, and generations are another way to isolate and find the right reader. I won’t ever be young again. Fact. 

When I’m writing about addiction, I know a significant number in that population is under 30. I try to use language that will at least meet them halfway.

However, I’m not going to write about addiction and recovery as if I’m twenty. It would be hard to claim 32 years in recovery and then write as if I weren’t even that old.

Each of us will use language that’s familiar to us. If our readers comprehend it, they might return if we’ve given them information presented from a different perspective. When we add insight or help them with a life or writing issue, they will likely return to read more. 


Your Turn to Help


Please leave a comment about how you found your readers. 

I’m sure it will help me find mine, too. Thank you. 



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Marilyn L. Davis is the Editor-in-Chief at Two Drops of Ink and From Addict 2 Advocate. She is also the author of Finding North: A Journey from Addict to Advocate and Memories into Memoir: The Mindsets and Mechanics Workbook, available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Indie Books, and Books A Million.






  1. Ty Marilyn
    I’ve become a big fan.
    I’m trying to surrender to the fact that I must write. I have to admit it’s not my favorite idea. Ty for producing excellence as a guide.

    • Hi, Cat. Finding our ‘right reader’ takes time. I know that both of us write about addiction and mental health and have found loyal readers there. I think it’s important to know our readers and to keep giving them information that they can use.

  2. I write inspiring thoughts 2 my facebook page which includes people from many different closed group’s looking for help with their recovery. I have found a great audience already in a very short time. I’m realizing that I might need to push me further 2 keep that message really being effective. Rose

  3. Great advice Marilyn. All the blogging advice out there screams, “find your audience.” I tried this and I found I wasn’t fulfilled enough writing about grammar. The only thing I can say about the audience for my current blog is that they’re probably over 50. 🙂 I’ll try your suggestion and see how it goes.

  4. Hi, Marilyn, I’m always moved by the wisdom in your writing. I assume I’m at least in your age bracket neighborhood so, I relate perfectly. I sense the need more and more to fine tune my target audience. I often describe myself as a mixed breed rather than purebred because of my life experiences. Being passionate about many things have challenged me with narrowing my focus. Yet, I hear similar instructions from a variety of sources. Repetition can be a good teacher unless hard-headedness is a vibrant condition. Being better is my vow. Thanks for the insight.

    • Hi, Rick. Thank you for the kind words. I also want to thank you for the excellent interview you did with Scott.

      I’m a mixed breed as well, and I think you’re right about that hindering our focus. When I narrow mine to recovery and writing, I can then concentrate the passion for both, and hopefully, write something that is helpful.

  5. Hi Marilyn – When I write, I imagine I am talking to a close friend while we are having a conversation either over coffee or lunch. I am still developing my voice, so I don’t know if I have hit that target or not, but it’s what I strive for – intimate, conversational and transparent. Thank you for this post – I particularly liked your analogy about some writing as if they are doing a Ted talk. An audience of 50 would ne anxiety producing for me – never mind 500! A great visual for me to stick to an audience of one!

    • Hi, Terry. Your posts always seem to be written with a good friend in mind – I know I relate to them as if we’re sitting having coffee at an outdoor cafe – maybe not always in Paris, but certainly a close match.

  6. Hi Marilyn, as always your words are thought provoking to me. When I do write, I am mindful of who I am writing too
    My mindset is a conversation with a family member who is to follow in my family linage when I am not here anymore. My hope it will give them a sense of where there heritage came from. I’m like Wendy, I’m still honing my inner voice to attract a like minded audience. Thank you again.

  7. Marilyn, I couldn’t agree more about writing for an audience of one. Like any venture in life, we must have a target or we’ll hit nothing. I noticed that as I focused more on what I was passionate about, I lost some readers and, yet, gained some faithful ones. Losing readers is not a bad thing if they weren’t part of the intended target. I’m still uncovering my writing voice and my tribe.
    I love this quote by Frederick Buechner: The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.
    Thank you for reminding us to focus on our target. 🙂
    Blessings ~ Wendy

    • Hi, Wendy. I like that, “target or we’ll hit nothing”. It’s true in life and blogging.

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